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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - rumbot - 08-05-2013

you shouldn't need to express deep emotions till she deepthroats you.

the desperation, they can smell it on you.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - kaese - 08-05-2013

Generic, I sincerely hope you are not whining about my friend Tongue


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - The Generic Name - 08-05-2013

(08-05-2013, 05:12 PM)Käse link Wrote: Generic, I sincerely hope you are not whining about my friend Tongue

No, I'm whining in general. Tongue 


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - kaese - 08-05-2013

(08-05-2013, 05:13 PM)The Generic Name link Wrote: [quote author=Käse link=topic=3709.msg270398#msg270398 date=1375740740]
Generic, I sincerely hope you are not whining about my friend Tongue

No, I'm whining in general. Tongue 
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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - at0m - 08-06-2013

(08-05-2013, 05:05 PM)rumbot link Wrote: you shouldn't need to express deep emotions till she deepthroats you.

the desperation, they can smell it on you.
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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - A. Crow - 08-06-2013

(08-06-2013, 03:36 AM)at0m link Wrote: [quote author=rumbot link=topic=3709.msg270397#msg270397 date=1375740340]
you shouldn't need to express deep emotions till she deepthroats you.

the desperation, they can smell it on you.
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What if he dreams of chasing women?


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - at0m - 08-06-2013

(08-06-2013, 08:54 AM)LT Crow link Wrote: [quote author=at0m link=topic=3709.msg270414#msg270414 date=1375778168]
[quote author=rumbot link=topic=3709.msg270397#msg270397 date=1375740340]
you shouldn't need to express deep emotions till she deepthroats you.

the desperation, they can smell it on you.
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[/quote]What if he dreams of chasing women?
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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - A. Crow - 08-06-2013

(08-06-2013, 08:57 AM)at0m link Wrote: [quote author=LT Crow link=topic=3709.msg270431#msg270431 date=1375797284]
[quote author=at0m link=topic=3709.msg270414#msg270414 date=1375778168]
[quote author=rumbot link=topic=3709.msg270397#msg270397 date=1375740340]
you shouldn't need to express deep emotions till she deepthroats you.

the desperation, they can smell it on you.
[Image: U7nQI0W.png]
[/quote]What if he dreams of chasing women?
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You know, I thought Generic looked familiar. 


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - at0m - 08-06-2013

In all seriousness, someone posted about essentially this topic several years ago.

(08-19-2010, 09:00 PM)rumsfald link Wrote: [quote author=Duck link=topic=1145.msg169927#msg169927 date=1282190384]
are you sure it's not creepy? cuz the few guys I know that have read that book are definitely creepers.... but you seem like such a swell, stand-up gentleman. I'm so confused...

Stan Lee once said, quite famously so, "with great power comes great responsibility." Me, I've always been noble. I didn't fool around with anyone till I met the woman I wanted to marry. Once married, I was faithful, dedicated. After she got caught cheating, she gave me a free pass to have several revenge affairs. I couldn't bring myself to do it. Maybe if I were more dastardly, like Crow or Atom, I could have, and that would have relaxed her guilt and we'd been able to stay together. But that wasn't me. Still isn't...I still haven't slept with anyone but the woman I married.

So, now I'm in a weird place where I'm 35, successful professionally, stable emotionally, giving to my friends, not old and balding like Kor, some people consider me kinda funny, and people generally find me interesting...and yet I have no fucking clue how to attract women of commensurate value. Sure, they LIKE me, but they don't WANT to be with me. So, as a nerd, I do what I always do when I need to, I go read and teach myself something new. And this book sings to me.

Sure, men with less noble instincts could use this knowledge, this technology for ill repute. But, that's true for any tool...guns...computer hackers...nuclear fission. Just because some assholes use this knowledge for ill doesn't mean YOU will be an asshole if you use this self-improvement for good. Correlation does not equal causation.

It's funny, since I went through my personal drama, I've already had several male friends open up to me about their women troubles. And, comparatively, I've lost way more then they have. Yet, I listen, I try to help, I try to be a friend. And, I've had amazon send this book to each of them.

It's a mindset. As much as it's a mindset to stop eating junk and start working out to improve yourself, it's a mindset to stop acting like you "think you should be" and start acting like an attractive male. The hardest part is committing yourself to flip the switch.
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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - KarthXLR - 08-08-2013

Accidentally found out that a childhood friend of mine has an abusive father that regularly yells at her and occasionally hits her mother. Only reason I found out is because she got kicked out by her dad tonight. I never knew. Hell, no one knew.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - VeraLapsa - 08-08-2013

(08-08-2013, 04:18 AM)Karth link Wrote: Accidentally found out that a childhood friend of mine has an abusive father that regularly yells at her and occasionally hits her mother. Only reason I found out is because she got kicked out by her dad tonight. I never knew. Hell, no one knew.

Her mother should go to a crisis center and get help. If her mom has been strangled at any time by him there's like a 75% chance he'll eventually murder her.

AKA get away from him asap.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - KarthXLR - 08-08-2013

(08-08-2013, 03:26 PM)VeraLapsa link Wrote: [quote author=Karth link=topic=3709.msg270503#msg270503 date=1375953516]
Accidentally found out that a childhood friend of mine has an abusive father that regularly yells at her and occasionally hits her mother. Only reason I found out is because she got kicked out by her dad tonight. I never knew. Hell, no one knew.

Her mother should go to a crisis center and get help. If her mom has been strangled at any time by him there's like a 75% chance he'll eventually murder her.

AKA get away from him asap.
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To my knowledge (and hers) occasionally hitting is the most serious its gotten. Unfortunately I can't do much. For one: I'm not supposed to know this. If I try to intervene I'm afraid I could make things worse.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - Didzo - 08-08-2013

(08-08-2013, 04:27 PM)Karth link Wrote: [quote author=VeraLapsa link=topic=3709.msg270510#msg270510 date=1375993601]
[quote author=Karth link=topic=3709.msg270503#msg270503 date=1375953516]
Accidentally found out that a childhood friend of mine has an abusive father that regularly yells at her and occasionally hits her mother. Only reason I found out is because she got kicked out by her dad tonight. I never knew. Hell, no one knew.

Her mother should go to a crisis center and get help. If her mom has been strangled at any time by him there's like a 75% chance he'll eventually murder her.

AKA get away from him asap.
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To my knowledge (and hers) occasionally hitting is the most serious its gotten. Unfortunately I can't do much. For one: I'm not supposed to know this. If I try to intervene I'm afraid I could make things worse.
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What you can do is talk to your friend about it and offer her your support instead of just being another bystander.




Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - k0ala - 08-08-2013

I thought it was quiet and I had a lot of phone calls that no one else picked up.

It turns out there was a department meeting which I wasn't notified of.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - KarthXLR - 08-08-2013

(08-08-2013, 05:43 PM)Didzo link Wrote: [quote author=Karth link=topic=3709.msg270512#msg270512 date=1375997276]
[quote author=VeraLapsa link=topic=3709.msg270510#msg270510 date=1375993601]
[quote author=Karth link=topic=3709.msg270503#msg270503 date=1375953516]
Accidentally found out that a childhood friend of mine has an abusive father that regularly yells at her and occasionally hits her mother. Only reason I found out is because she got kicked out by her dad tonight. I never knew. Hell, no one knew.

Her mother should go to a crisis center and get help. If her mom has been strangled at any time by him there's like a 75% chance he'll eventually murder her.

AKA get away from him asap.
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To my knowledge (and hers) occasionally hitting is the most serious its gotten. Unfortunately I can't do much. For one: I'm not supposed to know this. If I try to intervene I'm afraid I could make things worse.
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What you can do is talk to your friend about it and offer her your support instead of just being another bystander.


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My friend (her boyfriend) asked me not to bring it up with her. He's already trying to help her out and she's found someplace to stay. Apparently she was trying to move out of her house anyway.


Re: Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - Dtrain323i - 08-08-2013

You have miles upon miles of desert near you. You know what to do

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Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - rumbot - 08-09-2013

The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Operated by the Texas Council on Family Violence.

http://www.ncadv.org/protectyourself/GettingHelp.php

Don't be a bystander. Don't choose to be helpless.

Give this info to her boyfriend, and tell him to get educated and take the right steps.

If he refuses to do so or tut-tuts you, call him on it. This is not a time for timidity.

A culture of silence and shame is what perpetuates domestic violence.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - DragonEkarus - 08-09-2013

My mom just gave me three months to get a job and move out. Not gonna be able to get a job that'll find me a place to live in three months so I'm fucked.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - at0m - 08-09-2013

I call bullshit.


Re: The "Fuck my life" thread - KarthXLR - 08-09-2013

(08-09-2013, 04:47 PM)at0m link Wrote: I call bullshit.
A full-time position at any fast food place or retail job will earn you something like $900-$1000 a month I bet. That should enough for a single room apartment.