Be Right Back, Uninstalling

Damn that does suck, rather than dwell on what you thought you had and lost, think about the good times you got out of it, the lessons you learned and apply those to the next person that comes around.

Though I don't think I'm one to really be able to provide good advice on this kind of thing...

hey bro , i went through something very similar , esp when you mentioned
everyhing i do i can relate to him, makes me doing anything feel like a monster

and all the lying about being commited and blablabla.

i moped for about a week , then found that anger was a better solution than self pity.

you should be pissed at this dude. it helps with the healing.

also get some closure if you can before you totally tell him to fuck off, find out what changed in him. it's definitely not your fault this happend.

(06-17-2010, 07:23 AM)KorJax link Wrote: [ -> ]i just odnt understand... we have everything in common. hiking, animals, pc games (only friend i've ever known who has like pc gmaes on that note), puns, reading, geek-stuff, etc.... and despite him showing care when i held him, despite getting in my pants more than I wanted to, he was nothing but a phoney who didn't actually want to care about me. and yet... because everyhing i do i can relate to him, makes me doing anything feel like a monster

i don't think i can go through with this again. getting to know someone on a personal level that who actually appeciates and/or likes the things you do is someone i've never even known could exsist for a guy like me. Then to meet someone incredible like that who is also gay like me, and (falsely) showed interest and concern twoards me, only to be stabbed in the back takes my very identnty and ruins it. I cant trust anyone anymore

the worst part is that he probably doesnt even realize all this and thinks he was perfectly okay to text his boyfriend of 6mo out of the blue to go home when i come visit him and doesn't understand what hes actually done.

Fuckin dudes, man

(06-17-2010, 08:47 AM)Vandamguy link Wrote: [ -> ]you should be pissed at this dude. it helps with the healing.

This.  If you were the one who got dumped, GET MAD
BOXING GLOVES
PUNCHING BAG
POW POW POW POW


Especially in this situation dude like wtf man what a dick
(If you think im sounding harsh, then you need to get angrier).

Thanks ofr all the support guys, I really appreciate it. I've woken up, cried a bit, taklen a 30 min shower and went back to bed and for the moment feel calm. I'm avoiding thinking about anything right now and wonder if this is a bad idea to do.

He mentioned last night that he wanted to come by today to talk, I don't know if I should message him back or even if I want to see him ever again (funny thing 2 days ago all I wanted to do was to see his face). I'm not sure if I should try and make a friendship out of this like he obligitorily mentioned, or if I should tell him to screw someone else. I feel like the friendship would be scarred forever it's just..

if he would have communicated this 3-4months ago, if he would have said "lets slow down a bit I'm not ready for a serious relationship" after the first or second time he's gotten into my pants, I would have trusted him. Felt hurt for a few hours, but trusted him. now I don't know what to think or if he's worth my time at all. but the thing is, I feel like he should be worth my time because of all we've got in common and the fact that we are both gay. I've not met a single person in my 20 years who came even close to hitting all those checkmarks and he was it, but now I'm not so sure in myself that I'll ever see such a rare thing again.

being gay sucks when statistically only 5% of the world will even qualify as gay too and within that 5%, 95% are full of people you just can't relate to at all.

Anyways, on to someone else's bad day I've sure spent enough of a page on mine

(06-17-2010, 10:39 AM)KorJax link Wrote: [ -> ]Thanks ofr all the support guys, I really appreciate it. I've woken up, cried a bit, taklen a 30 min shower and went back to bed and for the moment feel calm. I'm avoiding thinking about anything right now and wonder if this is a bad idea to do.

He mentioned last night that he wanted to come by today to talk, I don't know if I should message him back or even if I want to see him ever again (funny thing 2 days ago all I wanted to do was to see his face). I'm not sure if I should try and make a friendship out of this like he obligitorily mentioned, or if I should tell him to screw someone else. I feel like the friendship would be scarred forever it's just..

if he would have communicated this 3-4months ago, if he would have said "lets slow down a bit I'm not ready for a serious relationship" after the first or second time he's gotten into my pants, I would have trusted him. Felt hurt for a few hours, but trusted him. now I don't know what to think or if he's worth my time at all. but the thing is, I feel like he should be worth my time because of all we've got in common and the fact that we are both gay. I've not met a single person in my 20 years who came even close to hitting all those checkmarks and he was it, but now I'm not so sure in myself that I'll ever see such a rare thing again.

being gay sucks when statistically only 5% of the world will even qualify as gay too and within that 5%, 95% are full of people you just can't relate to at all.

Anyways, on to someone else's bad day I've sure spent enough of a page on mine

Join the dark side bro. Vaginas are more fun.  ;D

(06-17-2010, 11:17 AM)Dtrain323i link Wrote: [ -> ]Join the dark side bro. Vaginas are more fun.  ;D

I'm Crow and I endorse this message. 

(06-17-2010, 11:41 AM)LT Crow link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Dtrain323i link=topic=3709.msg158741#msg158741 date=1276791438]
Join the dark side bro. Vaginas are more fun.  ;D

I'm Crow and I endorse this message. 
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You guys seem to forget that girls have cooties.

It's why I'm gay. Don't wanna get infected.

So random question...what piercings are considered 'gay' (like not in the 'lol thats dumb' manner) cause I see all these straight dudes nowadays with diamonds in their ears, or someone told me a couple days ago that nose rings and brow piercings make people assume you're gay

(06-17-2010, 12:59 PM)Funbucks link Wrote: [ -> ]So random question...what piercings are considered 'gay' (like not in the 'lol thats dumb manner") cause I see all these dudes nowadays with diamonds in their ears, or someone told me a couple days ago that nose rings and brow piercings make people assume you're gay

I think that is all bullshit personally. I remember in HS people were saying if you pierce one ear your gay and if you pierce the other you are straight. And if you roll up one pants leg you are a dealer and the other you are a user. I think most people don't care about learning a bunch of useless code. But if you are concerned about people thinking you are gay for a piercing you probably aren't the sort of person that should get one.

(06-17-2010, 01:02 PM)Surf314 link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Funbucks link=topic=3709.msg158775#msg158775 date=1276797584]
So random question...what piercings are considered 'gay' (like not in the 'lol thats dumb manner") cause I see all these dudes nowadays with diamonds in their ears, or someone told me a couple days ago that nose rings and brow piercings make people assume you're gay

I think that is all bullshit personally. I remember in HS people were saying if you pierce one ear your gay and if you pierce the other you are straight. And if you roll up one pants leg you are a dealer and the other you are a user. I think most people don't care about learning a bunch of useless code. But if you are concerned about people thinking you are gay for a piercing you probably aren't the sort of person that should get one.
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I'd never get a piercing, I was just wondering cause like you, i heard the 1 ear thing but apparently nowadays both ears=straight

but yeah it does all seem like a bunch of bs

pretty sure i've seen a transsexual woman, looks completely like a man now, but still has a vagina and does porn

(06-17-2010, 01:02 PM)Surf314 link Wrote: [ -> ]And if you roll up one pants leg you are a dealer and the other you are a user.

Bike messengers roll up the right leg so it doesn't get caught in their chains.

(06-17-2010, 01:08 PM)Versus-pwny- link Wrote: [ -> ]pretty sure i've seen a transsexual woman, looks completely like a man now, but still has a vagina and does porn

I'm worried about you.

(06-17-2010, 01:12 PM)Surf314 link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Versus-pwny- link=topic=3709.msg158778#msg158778 date=1276798108]
pretty sure i've seen a transsexual woman, looks completely like a man now, but still has a vagina and does porn

I'm worried about you.
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At least he's not talking about jerking to his favorite cartoon. I'd call this an improvement for him.

I think you're gay when you take dick in the butt and aren't a woman

(06-17-2010, 01:27 PM)Vlambo link Wrote: [ -> ]I think you're gay when you take dick in the butt and aren't a woman

+1

(06-17-2010, 01:06 PM)Funbucks link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Surf314 link=topic=3709.msg158776#msg158776 date=1276797734]
[quote author=Funbucks link=topic=3709.msg158775#msg158775 date=1276797584]
So random question...what piercings are considered 'gay' (like not in the 'lol thats dumb manner") cause I see all these dudes nowadays with diamonds in their ears, or someone told me a couple days ago that nose rings and brow piercings make people assume you're gay

I think that is all bullshit personally. I remember in HS people were saying if you pierce one ear your gay and if you pierce the other you are straight. And if you roll up one pants leg you are a dealer and the other you are a user. I think most people don't care about learning a bunch of useless code. But if you are concerned about people thinking you are gay for a piercing you probably aren't the sort of person that should get one.
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I'd never get a piercing, I was just wondering cause like you, i heard the 1 ear thing but apparently nowadays both ears=straight

but yeah it does all seem like a bunch of bs
[/quote]I've actually had this conversation a long time ago(He pierced his ear), and he was told this by someone in our family; "Left is Right, Right is wrong."

He didn't get it, for a week.

(06-17-2010, 01:26 PM)Mission Difficult link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Surf314 link=topic=3709.msg158780#msg158780 date=1276798373]
[quote author=Versus-pwny- link=topic=3709.msg158778#msg158778 date=1276798108]
pretty sure i've seen a transsexual woman, looks completely like a man now, but still has a vagina and does porn

I'm worried about you.
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At least he's not talking about jerking to his favorite cartoon. I'd call this an improvement for him.
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i love you mission

(06-17-2010, 01:12 PM)Surf314 link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Versus-pwny- link=topic=3709.msg158778#msg158778 date=1276798108]
pretty sure i've seen a transsexual woman, looks completely like a man now, but still has a vagina and does porn

I'm worried about you.
[/quote]The best one of those is when he fucks a preop MtF (chick with a dick).