Girlfriend broke up with me.
I should probably be a nervous wreck right now. Maybe it'll come later.
EDIT: Holy shit, it just about happened on the second anniversary of our relationship. Hoo.
(06-22-2010, 10:57 PM)Eightball link Wrote: [ -> ]Girlfriend broke up with me.
I should probably be a nervous wreck right now. Maybe it'll come later.
EDIT: Holy shit, it just about happened on the second anniversary of our relationship. Hoo.
Goddamn Map why do you have no textures. Goddamn health pack why are you not there. Look at this tree, fuck this cardboard tree
(06-22-2010, 11:18 PM)Vlambo link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Eightball link=topic=3709.msg160001#msg160001 date=1277265464]
Girlfriend broke up with me.
I should probably be a nervous wreck right now. Maybe it'll come later.
EDIT: Holy shit, it just about happened on the second anniversary of our relationship. Hoo.
Goddamn Map why do you have no textures. Goddamn health pack why are you not there. Look at this tree, fuck this cardboard tree
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Oh, if you're not feeling it now, it's coming later. You poor bastard.Â
(06-22-2010, 10:57 PM)Eightball link Wrote: [ -> ]Girlfriend broke up with me.
I should probably be a nervous wreck right now. Maybe it'll come later.
EDIT: Holy shit, it just about happened on the second anniversary of our relationship. Hoo.
eh, meet up in a few years after med school, she will realize she made a huge mistake.
I'm sorry man :/
I would love to give you some soothing words to calm your nerves, but I just can't relate. I've been in two serious relationships that ended by her, and I never once felt sad about it. Even when they did it, I was at most a tad angry. I think I'm a robot guys.
(06-22-2010, 11:29 PM)Vlambo link Wrote: [ -> ]I would love to give you some soothing words to calm your nerves, but I just can't relate. I've been in two serious relationships that ended by her, and I never once felt sad about it. Even when they did it, I was at most a tad angry. I think I'm a robot guys.
It's cool. Hearing anything helps; keeps me anchored. I'm pretty sure I'll be ok, I just need some time to get over it. In all honesty, when I put things in the proper perspective I don't have it so bad. Just spoke with her, there aren't any hard feelings, and we both agreed that this is best for us. Such is the fate of many distance relationships. I feel a lot for Korjax now instead.
And thanks for your words. They really mean a lot.
When my gf of 2 years and i split up last summer, i wasn't really feeling shitty till october, but by november it blew over...I dunno man, I kinda realized she was a weirdo bitch.
I'd say avoid relationships till you're like 25-27
i hear that man. everyone says im wierd for not really wanting in any kind of a relationship but honestly theyre nothing but trouble atleast when youre both young and neither of you knows what they want. theyre the only things that have ever really bothered me for more than like an hour
Today, I was reminded of a event in my life that just won't end. I've tried for years to forget or get passed but it keeps coming back. My one friend's advice to get closure I think is the best way of doing things, but I'm afraid of what it will bring. Will I truly be free from this moment or will I just go in deeper? I really can't contest what I will do, if I'm put back in that situation. Should I stay away if I'm trying to make this die?
(06-23-2010, 01:51 AM)PyroZombie link Wrote: [ -> ]Today, I was reminded of a event in my life that just won't end. I've tried for years to forget or get passed but it keeps coming back. My one friend's advice to get closure I think is the best way of doing things, but I'm afraid of what it will bring. Will I truly be free from this moment or will I just go in deeper? I really can't contest what I will do, if I'm put back in that situation. Should I stay away if I'm trying to make this die?
If you don't trust yourself to be able to keep yourself from spiraling into a mental shitstorm, keep the hell away.
Or maybe you just need to confront the situation head on and build that computer on your own.
....
Wait, what thread is this?
(06-22-2010, 11:45 PM)Eightball link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Vlambo link=topic=3709.msg160012#msg160012 date=1277267381]
I would love to give you some soothing words to calm your nerves, but I just can't relate. I've been in two serious relationships that ended by her, and I never once felt sad about it. Even when they did it, I was at most a tad angry. I think I'm a robot guys.
It's cool. Hearing anything helps; keeps me anchored. I'm pretty sure I'll be ok, I just need some time to get over it. In all honesty, when I put things in the proper perspective I don't have it so bad. Just spoke with her, there aren't any hard feelings, and we both agreed that this is best for us. Such is the fate of many distance relationships. I feel a lot for Korjax now instead.
And thanks for your words. They really mean a lot.
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We had two words to describe long distance relationships freshman year of college, 'thanksgiving break-ups' and 'spring break-ups'. Just look around you at Northwestern, there's plenty of people that are around, or as I suggested to KorJax try OKCupid, god I wish I had known about that site in college.
While any break-up can be bad, instead of feeling bad about it, just ask yourself realistically do you think it could or rather, should, have continued. If you answer 'no' to that then pick up, move on, and start chasing local poon. :-*
Aww that sucks Eightball... but I think you'll be alright, like you said. Just take the time, feel whatever you think you want to, and then move on. Lame advice, but still.
So, it looks like it'll be the 2 classes for the credit of one option for me. Physics 5 days a week, for pretty much the rest of summer.
Eightball we'll be single bros together :'(
I've stopped talking to my ex. He's just acting like a massive douchebag. I.E: saying "I don't HAVE to do anything" when I told him that he had a lot of nerve to just run off to virginia for the summer right after breaking up with me. Then I said "Sure you don't, but your actions speak louder than words" in which he replies " Alright have a nice life
"
I can only guess his "me-centered" attitude stems from a personal immaturity he has, which he was hiding from me and other people since day 1 (I just thought he was shy in an honest way, not in a dishonest way) but then he decided to let it show at the last minute here.
I shouldn't trust and put effort into cross country runner nerds ever again :-X
(06-23-2010, 04:31 PM)KorJax link Wrote: [ -> ]Eightball we'll be single bros together :'(
I've stopped talking to my ex. He's just acting like a massive douchebag. I.E: saying "I don't HAVE to do anything" when I told him that he had a lot of nerve to just run off to virginia for the summer right after breaking up with me. Then I said "Sure you don't, but your actions speak louder than words" in which he replies " Alright have a nice life "
I can only guess his "me-centered" attitude stems from a personal immaturity he has, which he was hiding from me and other people since day 1 (I just thought he was shy in an honest way, not in a dishonest way) but then he decided to let it show at the last minute here.
I shouldn't trust and put effort into cross country runner nerds ever again :-X
dude...... i dont want to take any sides but it just sounds like he just wants to be left alone
if you really think hes a dick then you made the right move by stopping talking to him
I know that, and that is fair. And I honestly felt similar feelings at times myself. My problem is that if he wasn't a dick about the whole situation and if he'd properly communicate himself like I have to him then we could have broken up on good terms and found the experience fulfilling (which is something that I have done successfully with a previous relationship and tried to do the same for him).
But I guess his idea of friendships and relationships are still stuck with a middle school mentality. And he would rather ignore and/or don a childish "Haha! Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me!
" attitude vs being rational.
Anyways I'm over with thinking about him. I'm not going to let his perspective twoards life and his friends get in the way of actually doing the things that he has done which I desired to experience and the things I wanted to experience with him.
I left my marker lights on in my car @ lunch break by mistake cause I really really wanted to eat my pizza, and @ the end of the day when I get out of work, the AAA driver hooked her jumper pack up to my car wrong and blew up the following electronics:
PRO-106 39,000-Channel Digital Handheld Scanner - $400
Valentine One Radar Detector - $400
Kenwood KDC-MP345U Head Unit - $~170
!@#$
Now I have to deal with all sorts of nice bullshit.
Not exactly heartbreaking, but still had to poast it..
Fuses do not help electronics when the initial voltage spike from a backwards feed is coming from the opposite end of the circuit as the fuses...
(06-23-2010, 05:51 PM)Dtrain323i link Wrote: [ -> ][quote author=Kirby, the AxeHammer Zealot link=topic=3709.msg160190#msg160190 date=1277333456]
I left my marker lights on in my car @ lunch break by mistake cause I really really wanted to eat my pizza, and @ the end of the day when I get out of work, the AAA driver hooked her jumper pack up to my car wrong and blew up the following electronics:
PRO-106 39,000-Channel Digital Handheld Scanner - $400
Valentine One Radar Detector - $400
Kenwood KDC-MP345U Head Unit - $~170
!@#$
Now I have to deal with all sorts of nice bullshit.
Not exactly heartbreaking, but still had to poast it.
This is why women belong in the kitchen.
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It's not even a BMW either. I could understand hooking it up backwards if it were a BMW, but it's not, it's a fucking Honda Civic.